Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Too Young to be Sexualized


I actually saw this image on Facebook while trying to come up with an item to present as this week's blog. When I saw this picture it made me laugh at first than it hit me about how true this post is. I have seen girls in middle school that wear more make up than me. What has all these little girls wanting to grow up so quickly? And what are we doing about this current situation? With 30% of girls' clothing being sexualized, according to LiveScience.com girls are seeing themselves as sex objects at a very young age. 




Toddlers & Tiaras has been a very huge success as a show while still making a ton of publicity about their controversial nature of the show. Dressing little girls up, tanning their skin, wearing tons of make up, and even wearing fake teeth. At the age of 3? This is perceived to be okay for little girls because they are involved in a competition. But how many little girls actually try to look like this because they see it on TV? A little girl at the age of 3 has not chance of looking completely flawless like this in real life without having to use tons of things to make her appear this way.






Little girls everywhere are suffering from eating disorders because they think this is the way they are supposed to look. There has been eating disorders around for a long time now but they are now starting with girls who are younger and younger. These kind of standards are unreachable and impossible to live up to.








Honestly, I am completely disguised that this is allowed on the internet and is not considered child pornography. I would not even want to see a supermodel wearing this because it is so inappropriate. This bathing suit covers barely what he needs to and it even looks like she is in some kind of fashion show. I must comment that I give them props for not doing her face up to make her look even older but the bath suit is not the right size and is inappropriate for her age.

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Rules of Engagement

Rules of Engagement is a television series that has been on since 2007. It shows different people in different stages of relationship: one couple is married, the other couple is engaged, and there is two men who are single. It has typical representations of men and women in modern relationships.
Television has a way of making stereotypes more acceptable and reinforces peoples' thinking to these types of stereotypes. Media makes it seem like working class men are dumb and that they need to depend on their wives a lot in order for the women to keep the men in check. This has been good for women because they are seen as more independent and important but makes the men look not as smart because they are working class.



Jeff is a financial manager so he is pretty responsible when it comes to money but still slips up a few times. He is just like the stereotypical man who avoids sensitivity as much as he can and does not like or feel uncomfortable with sharing his feelings and fears. He's the biggest man there is, he likes sports, TV, money, and cars. All the other guys look up to him and none of them will mess with him when he is serious. He is married to Audrey.


Audrey is married to Jeff. She works at a magazine but ending up quitting to be a stay at home wife. She is considered the typical stay at home wife. She spends money on things that they don't need and does not like putting a price tags on items, unlike Jeff. She is very strong willed and has proven many times before how strong and stubborn she can be. She likes trying to prove a point to Jeff when he is wrong to teach him a lesson. Women are seen as irresponsible when it comes to money so this is a stereotype that is seen in the show, also when she spends the money, it is usually on herself, which is another stereotype.



Adam is the typical dumb working class man. He has absolutely no common sense and is super gullible. He is not too smart but he is attractive. He really looks up to Jeff so whenever him and his fiance have issues in their relationship, he asks Jeff what to do. This is a problem because Jeff has been married for many years and Adam is newly engaged so the advice does not really work as well and it usually makes things worse. But he is more feminine than the usual man.



Jennifer has the stereotype of women manipulating men in order for them to get things that they want. She does this to her fiance Adam a lot but always ends up feeling bad about it. She is unlike the stereotype of normal women because she is like a man when it comes to the bed room. She is very sexual and loves being with her man. She is the more dominate person in her relationship and more level headed, she is the one who is responsible and the smarter one.







Russel and Timmy are both single men. Russel is the stereotypical man whore guy who sleeps with anyone he can and tries to put everyone else down so he can feel better. He a boss at a company that his dad works for so he is spoiled and doesn't actually have to work for his money. He is highly unprofessional and does not know when he needs to stop being such a pervert. Timmy on the other hand takes his job of being Russel's assistant very seriously. He is always doing whatever Russel tells him to even through sometimes he does not want to. Timmy is actually pretty smooth with ladies and have many women in his life.





This is one of my favorite shows but it goes to show how much media really does play a role in our society. There are so my stereotypes that are present in this show and there are many of shows similar to this because its what we are said to like. This enforces the stereotypes that we are told about and how we see people that fit our stereotypical ideas.

Thursday, February 6, 2014

No Photoshop Required

The use of photo shop on models have been a frequent reminder of how society has an unreachable standard for beauty because of media. What's even worse is that it can go both ways; either you are "too fat" or "too skinny." It is absolutely amazing how much a computer program can change the way you look.

 



This makes it almost impossible for someone to feel comfortable in their own skin. Many women and girls believe they need to have the perfect body and it has also been done to men. But Aerie, a sister store of American Eagle which sells bras and underwear, has had enough and decided to stop the photo shopping and hiring models in their ads to prove to young women that they are not to fall on these supermodel standards. They got the idea from a magazine, Verily, in order to inspire girls that they are sexy, having their new slogan, "The real you is sexy." Sending the real message of how much we are influence through ads every day pretty much telling us that we are not good enough and that we need to be perfect.



 The "change" that they are talking about is definitely overdue and much needed. With the US having an estimated 7 million women and girls that suffer from eating disorders, ads like these could really decrease that number.













This girl has absolutely no retouch on her and still looks beautiful. Confidence is what can make you sexy and being comfortable with your body. This ad will help you realize that you can still be hot without being unhealthy and photo shopped.



This is what our world has come to and it's up to us to fix our perception on this being okay in our society. We do not need photo shop and we should make a stand to help change the standards. Back to more normal, healthy, and realistic body images